Expected...easy to swallow!

Finding out about a truth, as benign as this truth might be, is something that will certainly alter our being and the way we're perceiving things in. But being faced with a reality that was somehow expected, has really little to do with a real finding at least, it shouldn't affect us the way un unexpected one may do, that's because the accomplished fact could more than once had been considered as a part of a process i'd call "truth simulation". Thus, the odds of us getting through turmoil when knowing about it, are no longer the same.
And just as many of you can possibly think: As long as something hasn't really been taking place, we can by no means assume it to be a truth or to put it in proverbial words: "What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't grieve over".
However, a new variable getting involved in our assumption of things will doubtlessly cause some some serious deep changes to occur. What makes the whole difference here as to what this change will cost us is one's personal willingness to assume it as a truth!

Why am I here?!

Today, I came across an article dealing with questions such as the meaning of existence, the purpose of life and others all ranking at a first sight under this category of endless existencial philosophical questions, namely the one that most caught my attention and got me mulling over it long: "Why am I here"?
In an attempt to find an answer for it, the one most of us would take for granted and that immediately came to my mind is the religious interpretation. It is a -ready to be taken-answer, I do personnaly adhere to as an everlasting truth. Contrarily to some misconceptions; this one doesn't prevent us from finding everyday other reasons for our life lying in every simple aspect of it. Everyday we can add some new meaning to it, by taking actions that would let us feel irrepleacble where we've been placed. Everyone of us wants to have a life he's wished and made for himself, and this wouldn't be possible unless he makes some difference in other people's life.

When we don't have what we like,should we really like what we have?!

Should we really do so? By behaving so, are we going to enjoy life more?! Since we do no longer believe in attaining something, when it seems to be so out of reach, we ultimately have to convince ourselves by the necessity of doing with what we have,of course....by fear of being frustrated!
But this will certainly imply some concessions to do,this, if it certainly doesn't mean that the fight is over!