Expected...easy to swallow!

Finding out about a truth, as benign as this truth might be, is something that will certainly alter our being and the way we're perceiving things in. But being faced with a reality that was somehow expected, has really little to do with a real finding at least, it shouldn't affect us the way un unexpected one may do, that's because the accomplished fact could more than once had been considered as a part of a process i'd call "truth simulation". Thus, the odds of us getting through turmoil when knowing about it, are no longer the same.
And just as many of you can possibly think: As long as something hasn't really been taking place, we can by no means assume it to be a truth or to put it in proverbial words: "What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't grieve over".
However, a new variable getting involved in our assumption of things will doubtlessly cause some some serious deep changes to occur. What makes the whole difference here as to what this change will cost us is one's personal willingness to assume it as a truth!